Thursday, November 23, 2006
How To Be A Better Couple 10 steps to enjoying each other better... (cope from angie's blog.. lOlx)
1. Be realistic about each other.Don't try to turn ur partner into something he or she is not.Let's face it, guys-there's only 1 Pamela Anderson in the world, and even she has had her implants removed! Give ur gal a break and understand that her physical appearance is NOT going to change overnite with the help of a few facials or treatments.And ladies, Brad Pitt has already been taken, so u're gonna have to do with what ur guy is like! Chill out, love each other for what u are. There is more to ur partner than what meets the eye.
2. Always talk things out.Now guys, I know this is not ur fave pastime or mode of resolving issues, but u know what? This works with the gals. Don't make assumptions about each other's feelings. Learn to xpress urself better so that ur partner undrstands what u're angry about, or hurt about, or even happy about! When u stop talking to each other from the heart, it's the beginning of the end.
3. Do stuff together.Make an effort to do things together. Do some sports or involve urselves in some shared activities; something both of u enjoy or are interested in. It could be as simple as watching movies together, or jus strolling hand-in-hand down Orchard Road. Watch soccor with him once in a while though the green patch on TV puts u to sleep in 3 seconds.And guys, do give in if ur gal asks for another day at window-shopping, rather than suggest that she go out with her girlfriends for "that sort of activities" instead. If u're spending more time with ur friends rather than with ur partner, it's a warning sign that u're drifting apart!!!
4. Meet each other halfway.If he agrees to throw out that rotten T-shirt with the "The_Rock" print, u shouldn't kick up much of a fuss if he asks u to keep ur room tidy... There's gotta be a little giving and taking in a relationship, so learn to meet each other halfway.
5.Show ur love.Buy her flowers or candy or perfume everynow and then, even if u have been together for 5years. It's wonderful to continue showing someone that u care for him or her. Cook him a special meal, paint him a Valentine's Day card. Knit him mini-socks he can't wear ( like for decoration purposes => ), buy him a packet of milk for breakfast, or pack his wardrobe for him...so he knows u can still be romantic and loving despite having been together for quite a while.
6. Respect each other.Stop making jokes about her hair or skin, or whatever it is u love to laugh at. Ask urself if she thinks if its funny. And if he has an inferiority complex about his height, stop ogling at tall guys and make him feel worse! Love is about respecting each other's feelings and being sensitive to each other at all times.
7. Bury the past.Stop bringing up the past. Gals..don't bring up the happy things about u and ur ex to ur guy, it would jus make him jealous or unhappy. And guys, don't talk about the happy times that u had with ur ex or mention about her in ur every other sentence as it would make ur gal feel un-happy and she might think that u saying all this b'cos u are gonna get back with ur ex or not interested in her anymore.
8. Sit on ur jealousy.All of us go thru' spells of insecurity at the beginning of the relationship, but don't translate that insecurity into jealousy. If u're gonna go through ur partner's mail and cupboard, and eavesdropping on conversations, u know something is wrong - with u!!! Jealousy is like a poison that slowly spreads thru' the relationship before finall y killing it. Trust ur partner; love has to have trust in it.
9. Keep ur commitments to each other.If ur partner is standing u up all the time and cancelling dates and breaking promises, u need to talk! If u're in a relationship, make ur partner ur priority and don't disappoint them if u can help it. It's really terrible when someone promises to take u to dinner, and then calls to cancel it. Don't make promises u can't keep. If ur partner starts to feel that he/she is not important enough to u, u may jus lose him/her.
10. Be honest. Honesty is not scowling at how awful she looks first thing in the morning, or telling him that he has the biceps of a fly~! When we say "be honest", we mean expressing <>ur feelings clearly, not being bitingly cruel. When u're hurt, say so, and when u're angry, tell him/her, w/o getting hysterical. If u can't be honest with ur partner, who can u be honest with?Love is also about honesty, and a relationship where no honesty exists probably isn't worth it!
Very important details i think~~~ couple take note worhx! for longer lasting r/s... :D
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Friday, November 17, 2006
i m so bored at work~!!! boring~~ arGh..
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Friday, November 10, 2006
i want to go back school and be like last time. Sch with gossiping session every day, not listening to lecturer teaching. Yeah~ toking cock wif dr lim.. :) i miss school~ i miss my frens... everyday in school can have friends to accompany, now so boring~!!! no teenage fun, kinda miss it very much. My work is boring these few days. No collegue, only me and vet. So talk, only talk a while then left alone again to play spider solitare~ hahahaha.
Yesterday went back to see my LO but nvr got to see her cuz she postpone meeting without telling me. well, she did, through e-mail! but who would see e-mail early in the morning. I haven even wake up sia~ and if i do, i would bathe and rush to school for her meeting liaox.. So yest morning, waited for 15 mins.. cannot reach her at all.. luckily saw dr lim.. hahahaha.. thus pei him eat his breakfast and we chatted for quite a long while. lOlxx.. Yeah~ nice toking to him, cheeky as usual~ and i'm always laughing at his coversation, u made my day~ wahahahaha.. Then he brought me out for a ride~~ his BMW covertible!!! lolxxx. Cool sia~ he sped through TPE a while as there are quite a number of cars so cannot speed all the way~ lolxx.. I like it!!!! The wind seems to be blowing away my hair and luckily i dun wear and head accessories or sumthing~or else it would have been blown away! lolx.
I don't like saturday~!!! cuz i got to work early~ bwahahahaha.. yeah yeah, i know all of you out there working for attachment wakes up damn early everyday~ jia you lorhx. lolx..
K bahx. nothing much to write la.. lazy lazy..
Adioss~~ CIao~ sAyonara!!! i love you you you you ~~!! Yeah! tats rite! u who is reading my blog!! lolx..
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